"And though thou art
busiest with small things,
Though menial thy labor may be,
Do thy utmost in that, and in all things
Thou still shall be noble and free.
Be to every man just, and to woman
Be gentle, and tender and true;
For thme own do thy best, but for no man
Do less than a brother should do.”
—Jem Ingelow.
OH! what a cleaning,
scrubbing, and general grubbing out of holes and corners we had after
the departure of Mrs. Derrigan and all her possessions. Did I say all
her possessions? Well, that’s not so, for she left enough old rubbish to
fill twenty dust-bins; we girls thought we would never finish carrying
out the old shoes, old clothes, bushels of old papers, and dozens of
empty bottles, she left behind her. Then we
started cleaning; father did the painting, mother unpacked her stores
and brought out curtains and covers, cushions and tablecloths. We made
washstands and dressing tables out of the old packing-cases covered with
muslin. We tried to spread out our belongings to their farthest extent,
yet, do our utmost, we had to buy some furniture before we could get
boarders, and where was the money to come from, for we had reached the
bottom of our purse.
Mother’s resources were not exhausted yet, though. She had made the
acquaintance, through buying some small articles at his store, of a
furniture dealer on Queen Street West. He was an Englishman, but had
been in Canada many years and got on well, To this man mother resolved
to go and, laying the case before him, ask if he would supply the needed
furniture and accept payment for it in monthly instalments. There was no
Adams Furnishing Company in those days and it was very hard for
strangers to obtain credit, but I feel sure mother’s honest face made
such an impression on the man that he quite willingly acceded to her
request, and once more the Hathaway family were on their legs, and
started on a fresh race for fortune. We soon got our first boarders.
Most of those we did get stayed, and in the fail we had a party of young
men students come, five of them, who remained with us all winter, part
of them returning the next year.
Amongst one of our first boarders was a fine intelligent looking young
Englishman, ir. whom my father was particularly interested, for he had
just come from Muskoka. His name was John Roberts. He had come out from
England two years previous with some friends of his, a young couple
named Barton, who had taken up land on the shores of Lake Joseph and
built a decent log house there. Unfortunately Mr. Barton had the seeds
of consumption strongly rooted in his constitution before leaving
England, and though he had picked up for awhile in the pure air and pine
woods of Muskoka, it was too late to do more than prolong his life, and
now' he had become so sick that, bringing his young wife and child with
him, he had come to 'I oronto to die. They had engaged rooms and were
now living not many doors from us, and, naturally, we all soon became
very much interested in them and their sad story.
Mr. Roberts was often with his sick friend, and took my father to see
him, and, to make a long story short, in the course of a few weeks an
arrangement was made between my father and Mr. Barton by which his house
and land on Lake Joseph were rented to my father for three years, the
agreement being that so many more acres—I think it was five—should be
added to the clearing every year. My father thought by taking up some of
the adjacent lots for himself he would be enabled to make a small
clearing and build a shanty on his own land before the expiration of the
three years.
My father did not intend going to Muskoka till the following spring, so
we had the winter altogether in our new home with the exception of my
brother Joe, who had gone to a farmer’s in the country.
Shortly before Christmas I was fortunate enough to obtain a good
situation in a store on Yonge street, and here I remained for many
years, and was able to be of some little help to my dear father and
mother in several ways. I was always at home on Sundays, and very happy
times we had. The memory of those Sunday evenings in the old
boarding-house wi!l never pass away. As tor mother’s boarders, we can
truly say we were brought into close contact with “all sorts and
conditions of men,” bad, good and indifferent. It is rather hard on our
own sex to say that after a little experience mother preferred gentlemen
to ladies as boarders. I believe, too, from what I have heard since,
that this preference is very widespread ; so, ladies, you must look out
for your laurels ; it will never do to let men get ahead of us in that
style.
We found out something else, too, by experience, and that was the fact
that far worse than people “just out from England” are those who are
always “expecting money from England.” I can only warn the unwary, if
there are any of this class round town nowadays, “of such beware, they
are fooling thee.”
My sisters being young, lively, and good-looking, it naturally followed
that they soon had their admirers amongst the young men, and there was
lots of fun. Sue, who was always reckoned the beauty of the family, was
also the greatest flirt, and the way she pulled the strings to make
those manly puppets dance was a caution. She made good use of them, too.
She had her writs about her. Their fetching and carrying powers were
made to lighten her share of the domestic work in more ways than one. I
was considerably amused at the way they ran around for her—up and down
stairs, with coal-scuttles, pails of water armfuls of wood, tending
their own stoves, riddling their own cinders; I believe in one or two
badly-gone cases -it even went as far as making their own beds, all this
in the hope of winning one smile or word of thanks from the fair Sue.
They brought her flowers in the summer time, too; they took her skating
and sleigh-riding in the winter; they fairly fought amongst themselves
for her favours, like the lion and the unicorn fighting for the crown,
but so far the motto of the lovely Sue had been, “A fair field for all
and favors to none.”
It was otherwise with Bet, and from the appearance of things her heart
was in great danger of passing out of her own possession into that of a
young Englishman who had boarded with us all winter. He was alone in
Canada, and I think it is when in distant countries we meet one of our
own land the tie of nationality seems the strongest, and our hearts go
out in good-fellowship towards our fellow exiles.
It struck us as very remarkable, when we first arrived here, how the
different societies w'ere formed by the different countrymen—“Sons of
England,” “Orangemen,” “St George’s Society,” no end of them. This is
all very well, but I think where the newly-arrived in this country make
their mistake is in so continually bragging up their own land and
disparaging Canada. Have they not come here (generally speaking) because
they could not succeed at home, and were in hopes by coming they would
better their condition, which they nearly always do? Why, then, should
they so disgust the “Canucks” with their continual growling and grunting
about this “blawsted country ” and all it contains.
I think it is greatly owing to this grumbling spirit on their part that
the feeling I was speaking of previously against new arrivals has
arisen.
“They do blow so,” I have heard Canadians say, “and are so dead struck
on themselves and their own way of doing things that we can make nothing
of them.”
Well, I don’t want you to suppose that Bet’s young man was of this
stamp. He seemed made up of nothing but good temper and jollity. No
cloud ever seemed to overshadow his sun. He was always bright and happy.
He was earning a good livelihood, and the affair between him and Bet
looked as if it might end seriously. As for my dear mother (I must say a
few words of my mother again here), nothing, I suppose, pleased her so
much as to see her daughters appreciated. We were all swans to her, dear
soul, though to others we may only have appeared the commonest of
ducklings. How true the saying that a mother lives her own life over
again in that of her daughters, and takes more pleasure in seeing their
happiness than ever she did in her own.
But spring was coming. My father was in better health and spirits with
the budding of the leaves. His longing to be up and doing returned in
full force. We had come through the first winter in Canada and conquered
many of the hardships which are inseparable from the lot of the stranger
of straitened means on first arriving in this land. But now father was
looking forward, with renewed health and spirits, to the time when he
should possess a home and farm of his own. Little Ben, now twelve years
old, was wild to go with him, and mother at last consented. So
preparations were made and in the month of May they started for the
north. Muskoka, at last, say my readers; yes, after this long preamble
and explanation, Muskoka at last. |