“Money's worth is house
and land,
Velvet coat and vest.
Work’s worth is bread in hand,
Aye ! and sweet rest.
Wilt thou learn what Love is worth?
Ah 1 she sits above Sighing,
Weigh me not with earth,
Love’s worth is Love."
HAVE my readers ever
seen what is called a “mind autograph album”? They used to be quite the
rage twenty or thirty years ago, but are rarely seen now. There is a
fashion even in such things as these. Each page of these albums
contained a number of questions with spaces left for replies, which the
owner of the book asked his friends and acquaintances to fill in. When
all the questions were answered it was supposed to contain a kind of
mental photograph of the writer—I am afraid not a very truthful one, for
the answers depended so much upon the mood in which the person happened
to be, merry or sad, contented or the reverse.
I was looking over an old one of my own, which I came across to-day,
filled in by my relatives and friends about twenty-five years ago. I
cannot help remarking two or three things. One is, the false estimate we
often put upon ourselves, as the most indolent of my friends have
written industry as the good quality they most admired: those with whom
number one was ever first have written unselfishness; those inclined to
be hypocrites have put down truth; those of rather a niggardly
disposition, generosity. And so, 1 suppose, it we are to judge these
characters correctly from the book we must go by the rule of contrary.
The other thing which struck me was that to the question, “What is the
sublimest passion of which human nature is capable?” the answers of
everyone throughout the book was invariably the same—love. Old and
young, saint and sinner, men and maidens, all have as if with one
consent written the word Love.
My dear old grandfather, who filled in the first page, has indeed
written ‘pure and holy Love”; and one friend has put “self-denying
Love.” But is not all love that is worthy of being called love, pure,
holy and self-denying. It is all that and infinitely more. It is not
only the “greatest thing in the world” but the greatest thing out of the
world as well, for “God is Love.” Those three words, which I repeated
parrot-'ike as a child, with a very faint, if any, conception of their
true meaning, have become to me in later years the very sheet-anchor of
my faith and my greatest comfort; for if God is Love what can we poor
sinners expect from Him but love. Can we possibly look forward with
fear, after death, to an eternity of Divine Love? Does not Christ
Himself try to encourage us by likening His own great Love to us to the
most tender of earthly relationships, “Like as a father pitieth his
children”; “If an earthly father giveth good gifts, how much more?” etc.
But I am afraid you will think this is too much like sermonizing, so
will proceed to tell you something of Winnie and her lover, who are
proving the truth of the old song, “Oh, ’tis love, ’tis love, ’tis love
that makes the world go round.”
My sister Winnie was one of those few and happy individuals who marry
their first and only love. A child in years when she first met Mr.
Roberts, five years before, her love had grown with her growth; starting
as the opening bud of girlish romance, it had blossomed with time into
the full-blown rose of woman’s love. John Roberts, her betrothed, was
just the man to win a young girl’s fancy. In the first place, he was
considerably older than she was, and as every one knows, juvenile
maidens detest boys as lovers; then he had a distinguished-looking air,
a bright, intelligent face, was well educated, and unusually well
informed, for he had travelled considerably in his time. He was of a
very hopeful disposition, which inclined him, as Winnie said, to be very
fond of “counting his chickens before they were hatched”; but he was the
possessor of the most varied stock of information I think any human
brain could contain. He had always been a great reader, and is to this
day the universal referee for the whole district. No matter what subject
one wishes to be informed upon, “ask Mr. Roberts,” he can always tell
you.
Of course he is an Englishman; strange to say, my sisters have all
married Englishmen. His engagement to Winnie was now of some months’
standing, though any hint of marriage had so far been strictly tabooed
by mother. She dreaded to part with her little ewe lamb. However, as
from time immemorial mothers have had to resign themselves to such
partings, Miss Winnie’s marriage, in the not too distant future, was a
foregone conclusion. When father was taking up the government grant land
for the farm, Mr. Roberts had secured a piece adjoining it of about
fifty acres, and on this he intended to build a nice little house of
which Winnie would be mistress. His arrival next day, as promised, was a
pleasure to us all. It was by no means his first visit to the farm, and
as on all former occasions he had made himself exceedingly useful,
father gave a grunt of satisfaction when he saw him. and remarked, “Ah,
sir! glad to see you ; just in time to help us with the oats. We’ll
start in as soon as you’ve had a bit of something to eat.’ Poor Mr.
Roberts! But father was not quite so bad as his word ; he gave them a
little grace by taking forty winks after dinner, and while I washed the
dishes the lovers escaped for a ramble through the woods; and all the
oats cut by Mr. Roberts that afternoon, as Benny jokingly remarked at
the tea table, “could be put in your eye.”
As night drew on a serious difficulty presented itself to my mind.
“Where was our visitor going to sleep?” It was impossible for him to
come under the “incubus.” We had no other place except the little shed
over the cook-stove at the back. I called Winnie aside and consulted her
on the matter. “Oh,” she said, “he won’t mind sleeping outside; the
weather is warm.” “Outside!” I cried, “what! on the bare ground? “No,”
she said, “on a board. He has often done it; he would as soon sleep
outside as inside.” And so it proved, for soon after ten o’clock that
night he politely wished us good-night and retired to the open. Next
morning, on looking out, I saw a long plank with one end resting on a
stump. “What is that?” I asked. “Oh,” said Winnie, laughing, “that is
Mr. Roberts’ bed. Doesn’t it look comfortable?” However, as he stoutly
declared, on being questioned, that he had slept well and been extremely
comfortable, I forbore further comment.
My happy holiday was now drawing rapidly to a close. When Sunday came,
father said he would take me, after dinner, through the bush some three
or four miles to see Mr. and Mrs. Spencer, who had been his nearest
neighbors when he was at Dale End. So far I had not done much walking
through the bush. Winnie and I had contented ourselves with short
excursions into the woods bordering our clearing. Father warned me
before starting not to put on anything which would tear, and to wear my
thickest boots, but little did I dream what I was going to encounter. We
crossed the clearing in the burning sun and then entered the woods, glad
of the welcome shade. We had not gone far before we came plump upon our
lovers, seated upon an old log, Winnie looking as pretty as a picture in
her blue print dress, for all the world like a bunch of forget-me-nots
against the dark green moss; Mr. Roberts, hat thrown aside, gasing at
her with admiring eyes. Father’s significant “Humph!” and my sly laugh
brought the color into both their faces, but ours was only a momentary
intrusion; we left them to their bliss and soon disappeared from sight.
Father went ahead of me, partly to clear the way, and I did my best to
struggle on in the rear. But, oh! preserve us! what a route! Now
clambering over huge fallen logs, now sinking knee deep in soft moss and
rotten wood, ducking under branches, jumping swampy places, breathlessly
calling out to father to stop a minute and let me catch up to him, hot,
exhausted, mosquito-bitten, I thought the journey would never end.
Father seemed to find his way by chips taken out of the trees, which he
called blazes, but I began to fear we were surely lost. "You said three
or four miles,” I ventured to remark, making a rush to catch up to him;
“but surely we have walked six or seven already: the trees don’t seem
quite so thick just here, though.”
“Thick here!” he exclaimed, “why you are on the government road, and
have been for the last twenty minutes.”
Mercy on us! I hung my head abashed; such ignorance after two weeks in
Muskoka, not to recognize a government road when I was actually walking
on it. I wisely refrained from further speech, and before long we
arrived in sight of a snake fence, the boundary of the Spencer clearing.
Mr. Spencer was an Englishman of good family who had come out soon after
his marriage, and had been in Muskoka seven or eight years. He had
already a family of five or six sturdy boys and girls growing up round
him, and some of these were quick to spy us as we climbed the rail fence
and rushed towards us, making a vigorous onslaught on my father, for he
was one of their prime favorites. They seized on him bodily and marched
him towards the house, but before we reached it Mr. Spencer, in his
shirt sleeves and big straw hat, came out to meet us. He gave us both a
most cordial welcome, and took me in to introduce me to his wife.
She was thoroughly English-looking, fair and rosy, with a bright, happy
face which did not look as if she had suffered much by “roughing it in
the bush.” She could tell some tales of hardship, though, I have not the
slightest doubt. It is wonderful what people did go through in those
days.
I was talking to a lady last summer, and she was telling me of her first
experience in Muskoka. nearly forty years ago, out Bracebridge way. She
said they could obtain nothing any nearer than Orillia, and then were
obliged to take just what they could get. She arrived in June, her
husband having come a month or two ahead to get the house built. She
said they managed all right through the summer, but when winter came
they had no stove, so her husband started for Orillia to buy one. He was
only able to get a little parlor cook stove, and paid a big price for
that. Then when he had succeeded in getting it home they did not know
how to put it up. They cut a hole through the logs just the height of
the stove, then put on an elbow and a length of pipe and thrust it
through the hole.
Of course, as the weather grew colder they had to keep more fire, and
the pipes would get red-hot and set fire to the wood and moss around
them. This necessitated one of them sitting with a pail of water and
dipper to pour over the pipes to cool them off. One day, as her husband
was doing this, an old Indian came in, and after observing him for some
time, asked why they did not get more pipes and cut the hole up much
higher? which solution of the difficulty, strange to say, had never
entered either of their heads. They took his advice, and he assisted
them to make the change, which not only added to the warmth of the room,
but saved them the necessity of constantly watching the fire. We may
“live and learn,” you see, even in a new country.
To return to the Spencer’s, their children beat anything I have ever
seen for size and vigor —such limbs, such lungs, such untiring strength;
even the baby, eight months old, stood up in his solid wooden cradle,
and actually rocked himself with such an amount of force that my heart
was in my mouth as I watched him. Nothing seemed to disturb Mrs.
Spencer, though. I suppose she was too well accustomed to the racket.
She maintained her tranquillity through it all, and went around
preparing the tea without taking the slightest notice.
The furniture was plain and strong. I observed the chairs and some other
articles were hung up on nails against the walls. I asked father, in a
low voice, the meaning of this. “Why, to keep the children from smashing
them all, to be sure.” I was more awe-struck than ever. By this time the
tea was nearly ready, and I discovered I was most ravenously hungry, and
began to look with keen interest at what was being placed on the table.
There was a big jug of milk and a pot of tea, two large loaves, a pat of
butter, a big dish of lettuce, and last, but not least, an immense
custard pudding. The sight of this made my mouth water after our late
rather meagre fare at the farm, and I impatiently awaited the summons to
the table. At last everything was ready, the chairs handed down, the
children seated round, and the meal began.
I was in that condition I could have eaten anything with a relish, but I
confess I had a special eye on that big custard, so it came with quite a
shock when our hostess, apologizing, informed us she had been without
sugar for some time, so there was none for the tea nor none in the
custard. Oh, dear! what a come down; it took away my appetite. After tea
was over we prepared to start for home, and Mr. Spencer, taking pity on
me, kindly proposed rowing us part of the way in his boat, and then
showing us a shorter and better track through the bush. In this way the
return journey was made in a much easier fashion, but I shall never
forget my first walk through the “Muskoka bush.” I may say just here
that the Spencer family now number a round dozen, and that the pater and
mater families still live and flourish.
I don't know how it is that large families seem to be the rule in
Muskoka; perhaps it is owing to the bracing climate, fresh air, and
absence of luxuries. Twins also abound. In one case I know of three
pairs in one family. I could at this moment count up over a dozen
families on our lakes ranging in number from ten to fifteen. Well, the
Bible says, “Blessed is the man that hath his quiver full of them,” and
there’s room enough here and work enough, goodness knows, so let them
come. A Muskoka photographer tells the tale that one day a settler’s
wife came to him with her eleven children to have their pictures taken.
He told her what he would charge a dozen.
“Oh,” she said, “can’t you take less than a dozen?”
“Well, not usually,” he replied, with an eye to business.
“Come along, children,” said the woman, mournfully, “I’ve only got
eleven yet; we shall have to come again when there’s twelve,” and they
sadly went their way.
When father and I got back to the farm that night I had to prepare for
my departure the next morning. I had to leave them all, and I felt
dreadfully low-spirited at going; in fact, though I rarely shed tears,
and am considered by my softer-hearted friends rather hard in
consequence, I must confess I have never been able to leave Muskoka
without a few briny drops falling into the lake over the edge of the
boat which was bearing me away. But as I do not wish to part from you in
too melancholy a mood, I will finish this chapter by telling you a funny
incident which occurred on Saturday afternoon.
Winnie and I were busy cleaning up the shanty when Mr. Roberts came in
and said, “Rover seems very hungry; I don’t believe you give him half
enough to eat. Why don’t you do as I always did with my big dog—boil
some potatoes and oatmeal, with all the scraps, in the big iron pot and
make the poor beast a good satisfying meal? Here, give me the pot; if
you’re busy I’ll do it myself. Can I take these pieces, and these?”
Collecting all the odds and ends around, he put the pot on the stove for
awhile and then carried it out to the dog. A short time after Winnie
said to me, “Nan, where have you put the soap? It was here a few minutes
ago.” I had not seen it, and while we were making a vain search for it
in every direction, Mr. Roberts again popped his head in at the door and
said, “I don’t know what ails the dog, he won’t eat it now I’ve taken
the trouble to make it. Just look at him.” We went to the door and
looked across at Rover There he stood, gazing at the pot with a most
rueful and hungry look, licking his lips, sniffing, but not taking a
bite. All at once an idea seemed to strike Winnie. She ran across to the
pot, knelt down and smelled it, then burst into a peal of laughing, and
rolling on the grass fairly held her sides with uncontrollable mirth—she
had found the soap, so had the dog! |