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		 THESE "Reminiscences of 
		Pioneer Days in B. C.” are mostly of a personal nature. They have been 
		jotted down at the request of relations and friends, partly from memory 
		and partly from letters written at the time to my mother, which were 
		returned to me after her death. They are not intended to be a record of 
		church work nor of the official life of my husband, this having been 
		dealt with in “Pioneer Church Work in British Columbia: A Memoir of 
		Acton Windever Sillitoe, by the Rev. H. H. Gowen, and in “Early Days in 
		B. C.,” published Christmas, 1922. 
		 
		These “Reminiscences” deal more with the little daily happenings and 
		journeyings in the semi-pioneer days covered by the duration of my 
		husband’s episcopate from 1879 to 1894. 
		 
		OUR tirst journey out to British Columbia in 1880 was by no means an 
		uneventful one, and the latter part was distinctly uncomfortable. 
		 
		The steamer on which we crossed the Atlantic, the Allan liner Sarmatian, 
		was the last word in luxury, as it was accounted in those days. A suite 
		of apartments on board had been arranged shortly before for carrying H. 
		R. H. the Princess Louise and H. E. Lord Lorne, when he was appointed 
		Governor-General of Canada. 
		 
		Luxury in those days meant a very different thing to what it does now. 
		The best of staterooms was exceedingly small, with the regulation upper 
		and lower berths, a narrow sofa opposite, and a small washstand facing 
		the door. The cabin was lighted by an oil lamp enclosed in a 
		ground-glass case, shared between two staterooms, and the light was very 
		dim. 
		 
		Arrived in the Gulf of St. Lawrrence we were caught in a huge ice-field 
		and could neither go forward nor backward. It was a wonderful scene, ice 
		in every direction as far as the eye could reach, and innumerable 
		vessels of all sorts and such were in the same uncomfortable plight as 
		ourselves. Little fishing schooners and big ocean liners were caught 
		fast in the ice. There wrere the Allan liners Polynesian and Moravian, 
		the mail steamers that had left the week and fortnight ahead of us, and 
		to whom we were able to send the latest news and also a supply of 
		newspapers, etc. People were out on the ice amusing themselves. The ice 
		was from 15 to 20 feet thick, but was getting rotten, so that we were 
		able, after a delay of about twenty-four hours, to grind our way 
		through, and we arrived in Quebec ahead of the other steamers. 
		 
		The Union Pacific was the only transcontinental line, and though the 
		trains were comfortable, there were no dining cars, and the meals 
		provided at the stopping places during the latter part of the journey, 
		to put it mildly, were not appetizing. 
		 
		The voyage from San Francisco in the old Idaho was even worse, for the 
		steamer was crowded to capacity with men engaged to work on the railway 
		construction of the C. P. R.; which had just commenced on the Western 
		Division, and at night all the floor space was covered with sleeping 
		figures. These men were described elsewhere as the scum of the San 
		Francisco market! 
		 
		Arrived at Victoria we went to stay at Bishops’ Close with the Bishop 
		and Mrs. Hills, and the kindness of our hosts and the cleanliness of the 
		house and meals and the sweet scents of the flowers wafted in through 
		the open windows, by very force of contrast, made it seem like a 
		foretaste of Paradise. Mrs. Hills was a wonderful gardener, and the 
		Bishops’ Close garden was one of the sights of Victoria, to which all 
		visitors from other parts were taken as a matter of course. 
		 
		When we arrived in New Westminster on June 18, 1880, there was no house 
		ready for us, and Archdeacon and Mrs Woods received us most hospitably 
		at the Rectory. We made our headquarters with them for nearly three 
		weeks, the Bishop making trips of a day or two to Burrard Inlet, Ladner 
		and the North Arm of the Fraser and other nearby places, I accompanying 
		him. 
		 
		Then a move was made to Yale, and we took up our abode for a while in 
		the four-room Mission House, built many years before. It was here I 
		began to wrestle with the difficulties of cooking and housekeeping. 
		 
		The summer and autumn were occupied by the Bishop in getting to know the 
		diocese and the people, and many short journeys and one long one were 
		made. 
		 
		We arrived back in New Westminster on October 26, and were much 
		disappointed to find that work on the old Archdeaconry House at 
		Sapperton (which was to be our home), and which was afterwards renamed 
		S. Mary’s Mount, had progressed so slowly that it was not nearly ready 
		for us. This time the Rev. C. Baskett came to our rescue and offered us 
		a room in his house, a very ramshackle building roughly built of 
		material from some abandoned sappers’ houses, for Sapperton was where 
		the Royal Engineers were located when they were laying out the city of 
		New Westminster. It is interesting to recall that it was Queen Victoria 
		herself who gave New Westminster its name. Originally it was to be 
		called Queenborough, but objections were raised, and affairs became so 
		heated that the question was referred to England, and Her Majesty 
		decided the matter by herself choosing the name, thereby conferring a 
		singular honor on New Westminster. 
		 
		At that time there were two Crown Colonies: Vancouver Island, with 
		Victoria as the capital, and the mainland of British Columbia, with New 
		Westminster as its capital. 
		 
		Government House was built on the high ground of the ravine which runs 
		through the Penitentiary grounds, and where the house of the governor of 
		that institution now stands. 
		 
		Our quarters (or perhaps I should say “quarter,” as we had only one 
		room) in Mr. Baskett’s house were far from luxurious, although in a 
		missionary magazine Mr. Baskett had been described as one of the city 
		clergy “languishing in the lap of luxury” so different from the 
		up-country missionaries, whose many hardships were feelingly described. 
		In point of fact nothing could have been more misleading. Mr. Baskett 
		led a most self-denying life, and in his home few luxuries found place. 
		Even his bed was only a built-in bunk in a tiny place off the kitchen, 
		and the house was so badly constructed that the four winds of heaven 
		blew at their sweet will through it. The room given to us was the 
		diningroom, and in a small alcove was the bed. It measured 2 ft. 6 ins. 
		in width, and, having to accommodate two people, was widened by a wooden 
		bench out of the church, on which for mattress was placed the original 
		red cushion that adorned the gubernatorial pew in S. Mary’s Church and 
		which was much worn by long usage. It was better, however, than the 
		mattress proper, which was of flock, which had gathered into hard lumps 
		like raw potatoes, and the solitary pillow was filled with the same 
		material. However, extreme fatigue made sleep possible, or if not, there 
		was the pleasure of contemplating the stars through the holes in the 
		roof, or for change we could look down through the cracks and knotholes 
		in the floor to see how three of the would-be clergy, who had arrived 
		from England, were getting on, and who were housed in a kind of 
		basement, possibly even more airy than the house. Mr. Sheldon, one of 
		them, not having a sufficient supply of blankets, we noticed was 
		sleeping under a violet funeral pall which he had annexed from the 
		church. 
		 
		Our stove was a very small sheet-iron one with a drum in the stovepipe 
		for oven, and in which on the first day I baked a beeksteak pie. To my 
		immense astonishment it turned out a success; I think a special 
		providence watches over the efforts of the very ignorant, but how 
		inhospitable I felt when I had cooked a joint or pie which I hoped might 
		last at least for two meals and it was picked to the bone or the last 
		scrap at the first one! 
		 
		Fortunately for us the Bishop could turn his hand to anything, but this 
		quality was by no means shared by the embryo clergy. One day the menu 
		for dinner consisted of herrings. Now I could clean herrings when 
		necessity called for it, but I could not eat them afterwards, and the 
		Bishop was very quick to notice any loss of appetite on my patt. I asked 
		all three of the young men if they would undertake this job for me, and 
		all with one accord made some excuse or other, so I was just settling 
		down to my work when the Bishop came along, sized up the situation, and 
		took over the job himself. It was just the same with the wood chopping; 
		if Mr. Baskett was not on hand to help, the Bishop did it. One good, 
		kind engineer’s wife saved me a lot of work by baking the bread for us. 
		 
		As it was I became ill with the strain, and in consequence we moved into 
		our house when it was still far from complete, and shared it with the 
		workmen. The move was made on the day before Advent Sunday, 1880, when 
		we at long last acquired a home of our own, and never before or 
		afterwards did anything seem such an acme of luxury, and though our 
		friends prophesied all sorts of ills from damp walls, etc., nothing 
		happened. 
		 
		Soon after S. Mary’s Mount was completed and the workmen had left, the 
		Bishop was called over to Granville on some business and was obliged to 
		stay overnight, and for some reason or other I did not accompany him. By 
		this time we had a Chinaman, and as Sapperton is some distance from New 
		Westminster, he slept in the house. We also had two dogs, a collie and a 
		black retriever, the latter a dog of great character, by no means good 
		tempered, but very much attached to us. At about two in the morning on 
		the night of the Bishop’s absence, I was awakened from my first sleep by 
		the dogs barking most furiously, and slipping on my dressing gown I ran 
		downstairs, calling to the Chinaman as I passed. The dogs were throwing 
		themselves against the front door, and when I opened it they tore off in 
		the direction of the gate. After some time and after hunting round the 
		outside of the house, for I thought it might be a telegram from or about 
		the Bishop, I returned and called the dogs in. 
		 
		Our dogs, although allowed in the house, were never permitted to come 
		upstairs. When I was returning to bed the black retriever started to 
		follow me, and when he did not obey my first order to go down, I spoke 
		to him sharply, and for the only time in his life he growled at me. That 
		night he slept on the bare boards outside my door, and was there when I 
		came out in the morning and begged his pardon. He knew his duty was to 
		look after me in his master’s absence and intended to do it in spite of 
		anything I said. The Chinaman never came out of his room at all, but 
		told me that he had heard steps on the verandah, and in the morning 
		there were footprints, showing that two men had been around and some 
		tools left outside were missing. It was well for the burglars that I was 
		not as quick as I might have been in waking and getting downstairs or 
		they might have fared badly from the teeth of the dogs. 
		 
		Another occasion, when I was even more frightened, had a most ludicrous 
		ending. I was at this time quite alone, the Bishop was in New 
		Westminster attending a meeting and the Chinaman was away also. I was 
		sitting working when I was startled by a crash at the back of the house. 
		There was no nearby house to flee to, and I knew that I must not allow 
		my nerves to get the better of me, so with a beating heart and taking my 
		courage in my hands, or rather hand, the other being occupied by the 
		lamp which I carried, I made my way to the kitchen and there discovered 
		the reason of the noise. 
		 
		The Chinaman had left a bowl of batter on the table, and the cat in her 
		peregrinations had pushed it off and it fell on the floor with a crash, 
		which probably sounded about ten times as loud as it really was, and in 
		falling had poured the contents into the Chinaman’s slippers, which 
		stood handy. My relief was such that I laughed till I was almost 
		hysterical. 
		 
		In one of my home letters I described the first meeting of the clergy at 
		our house in February, 1881. These meetings became annual events during 
		my husband’s episcopate. As far as I remember there were six guests to 
		be housed at the 1881 gathering. The weather was bitterly cold and when 
		I had distributed our none too liberal supply of blankets there remained 
		only one very thin single one for ourselves. This we supplemented by the 
		Bishop’s Inverness cape and my winter coat, but in spite of these we 
		spent a very shivery night. 
		 
		Next morning, just as we were assembling for breakfast, Mr. Whiteway, 
		one of the visitors, came up to me and said: 'Mrs. Sillitoe, could you 
		let me have another blanket? I was not quite warm enough last night.” 
		 
		With a sinking heart but with hypocritically cheerful countenance, I 
		said “Certainly,” and that night our one and only blanket was given up. 
		But our sufferings had a very practical silver lining, for when reading 
		of our difficulties in my letters home, my mother and two aunts were so 
		sympathetic that they sent us out a goodly supply of blankets; so our 
		shivering nights had not been in vain. 
		 
		The following is a description of one of these meetings from another 
		point of view, published in “Pioneer Work in B. C ”: 
		 
		The whole staff of the Diocese was present. The Bishop, realizing most 
		acutely the dangers that beset the clergy in their lives of comparative 
		isolation in this extensive Diocese, knowing how much the spirituality 
		of the work depends upon the maintenance of a high tone of piety and 
		devotion in all to whom the care of souls is committed, and deeply alive 
		to the importance of fostering a spirit of brotherly kindness between 
		himself and his spiritual sons, “yea, rather, brethren beloved,” is 
		aided by his wife at no little cost and trouble in the preparation he 
		makes for affording a retreat whilst the examination of candidates 
		proceeds. 
		 
		At six a.m. the calling bell arouses all from slumber, and by seven the 
		chapel is occupied by silent worshippers preparing for the Eucharist, 
		celebrated by the Bishop himself every morning at 7.30. 
		 
		It is needless to anyone acquainted with the Bishop’s regard for order 
		and reverence to add that the administration of Holy Communion is 
		invested with the solemnity and impressiveness that befit the Divine 
		Mysteries. 
		 
		At eight breakfast is partaken of in silence, whilst each in turn reads 
		from some book of an edifying character. This season we read Milman’s 
		“Love of the Atonement.”  
		 
		At ten the examination of the candidates is conducted by the Archdeacon. 
		Dinner is at 1 p.m., with reading in turn, as also at tea, which is at 
		six it is with almost a feeling of reluctance that one returns to the 
		custom of making such occasions periods of social relaxation and common 
		talk.  
		 
		Friday is passed in a still more marked manner, though it is generally 
		termed a “quiet day.” Absolute silence is enjoined on all by the Bishop, 
		himself not excluded, from the rising of the sun till breakfast on the 
		day following. On the walls are posted the proceedings in which all are 
		expected to take part; subjects for meditation suitable to the 
		ministerial life, and earnest addresses by the Bishop and others are 
		given in the chapel, concluding with a special service at 7.30, to which 
		the parishioners are generally invited. So the day of separation from 
		the world, of self-communing, and personal exhortation, passes away—but 
		not so, we trust, the deeper insight into ourselves, the high resolve, 
		the kindled desire and the chastened spirit. 
		 
		DURING our sojourn at S. Mary’s Mount we had the honor of entertaining 
		three governors-general. Princess Louise accompanied her husband, the 
		Marquis of Lorne; Lord Lansdowne was only accompanied by his staff, 
		while Lady Stanley of Preston came out with her husband. In each case 
		our house, which was none too big, was taxed to the limit, and beyond. 
		 
		The Marquis of Lorne was the first one to come, in the early autumn of 
		1882. His party consisted of H. R. H. the Princess Louise, with her two 
		ladies-in-waiting, Miss McNeil and Miss Harvey; Col. de Winton, 
		comptroller of the household; and two valets. Other members of the party 
		we found room for in the old Government House and in town. 
		 
		We had only twenty-four hours’ notice of the honor in store for us, and, 
		as usual, it found us with every room in the house occupied; indeed I 
		never remember the time when the house was not full. We had, therefore, 
		not only to provide for the incoming guests, but to find quarters for 
		the outgoing ones. Staying with us at the time were two of the Cowley 
		Community, Fathers Hall and Shepherd, who had come out to spend the 
		summer ministering to the men working on the Canadian Pacific Railway 
		construction. Later Father Hall became (and still is) Bishop of Vermont, 
		while lather Shepherd died in South Africa. 
		 
		I was still very young at the time, and very shy, and stood in great awe 
		of these two holy men, but when they asked if they could do anything to 
		help, my need of assistance was so great that I promptly accepted, and 
		giving them two big aprons, set them to work to clean the silver! Like 
		everything else they undertook, the work was done to perfection! Miss 
		Kendal, who at that time was in charge of Columbia College, the Church 
		school for girls, was also most kind in helping me. 
		 
		S. Mary’s Mount had three fair-sized bedrooms and two very small ones, 
		and into these the party was packed, H. R. H. and the Governor-General 
		having our bedroom and one of the small rooms as dressing-room, the two 
		ladies-in-waiting sharing a room, and Colonel de Winton occupying the 
		remaining large one. The Bishop and I and all our possessions were piled 
		into the second small one, which was about six feet by ten or twelve, 
		with no cupboard. I shudder when I think of the appearance of that room. 
		The party arrived at about 1 o’clock and in great style, for there being 
		no carriage on the mainland, other than the high, old-fashioned stages, 
		a landeau had been imported for the time being from Victoria. 
		 
		A party of bluejackets formed the escort. As the luggage was to follow 
		later, the Princess asked if she might borrow one or two articles from 
		me, and happily amongst the wilderness piled up I was able to find what 
		she needed. Amongst other things, put in at the last minute, was our 
		little dog, who was apt to bark at strangers. 
		 
		When the Princess came downstairs she said to me: “I hope I have not 
		done wrong, but when returning your belongings I let out your little 
		dog!” 
		 
		Just imagine my feelings at H. R. H. having seen that awful room! The 
		Princess told me to be sure to make use of the valets—these two men 
		having been accommodated with tents pitched in the field at the back. 
		 
		If I had been awed at the thought of entertaining royalty, I was simply 
		terrified at the valets, but again extreme need came to my aid. Our 
		domestic staff consisted of one Chinaman, who had to look after the 
		horses, milk the cow, attend to the vegetable garden, besides cooking, 
		baking and washing for the family, and help, therefore, was urgently 
		needed, so I had the head valet in, giving him directions as to the 
		setting of and waiting at table, etc. 
		 
		I explained that I made the coffee myself in the drawingroom, of which 
		he quite approved, saying that H. R. H. did the same at Government 
		House, but when I further explained that after returning from viewing 
		the torchlight procession and illuminations on the river, I wanted him 
		to bring in the tea tray, which I would have all ready, there his 
		approval ceased— “We don’t have tea at Government House, madam!” 
		 
		Feeling that I must assert myself, I said: “I think I would like you to 
		bring it in,” and he then thought he probably had been a little too 
		officious, for he added rather apologetically: “You see, madam, our 
		gentlemen don’t drink enough to require it!” His enlightening of my 
		unsophisticated mind on the reason of tea and coffee after dinner was so 
		deliciously funny that I had to go into the drawing-room to repeat the 
		conversation, which caused much amusement. 
		 
		Princess Louise was an ideal guest, so simple and unassuming, as were 
		the ladies-in-waiting. Miss Harvey was a first-rate musician. Miss 
		McNeil afterwards married, as his second or third wife, the old Duke of 
		Argyle, and so became step-mother-in-law to Princess Louise. 
		 
		The Princess made several sketches from our field and these appeared 
		later in the London Graphic. As it was still too early for fires, she 
		went into the kitchen herself to dry her sketches, catching the Bishop 
		at the back of the house in his shirt sleeves doing some necessary 
		chores. Between tea and dinner we spent the time with music, the 
		Princess and I singing duets, she taking the alto and I the soprano. 
		 
		Next morning there was a great gathering of Indians to see the “Queen’s 
		Papoose” and also to make speeches to the Governor-General. Just before 
		leaving, Colonel de Winton came in to tell the Princess what 
		arrangements had been made, for she was to return to H. M. S. “Comus” 
		that day en route for Victoria, and the whole party, ourselves included, 
		were to go with her to Port Mood. The Marquis was to return with us, as 
		he was going on up country next day. The arrangements were that the 
		Governor-General, the Princess and the two ladies-in-waiting should 
		drive in the landeau, the Bishop and I in the buckboard, and the rest in 
		all sorts and conditions of buggies and stages. 
		 
		“Oh, no,” said the Princess, “that won’t do. I am going to drive in the 
		buckboard with the Bishop,” and no amount of persuasion or expostulation 
		would turn her from her purpose. 
		 
		This was the first the Bishop had heard of the honor in store for him, 
		and he hastily slipped out to the stable to have a look at the harness 
		and see to the harnessing of the horse. The buckboard had seen service, 
		hard service, and indeed very little of its original coating of paint 
		remained, while the harness had been second-hand when we bought it and 
		had since then grown perceptibly shabbier, and although not held 
		together (as much B. C. harness was) by cord and telegraph wire, still 
		it was only a few degrees better. 
		 
		“Punch,” my beautiful horse, given to me on my first birthday in British 
		Columbia by the Bishop, had blue blood in him. He was bred for a racer 
		but had ignominiously failed in his first race, and the Bishop, 
		therefore, was able to acquire him for the price of an ordinary horse. 
		But even “Punch” did not appear at his best. His coat was shaggy and 
		none too well groomed; in fact, the whole turnout, to say the least, was 
		appallingly shabby. It headed the procession, passing through the 
		decorated grounds to the playing of the bands, the waving of flags and 
		the cheering of the crowds. 
		 
		Next came the landeau with the Governor-General and myself, and the two 
		ladies-in-waiting opposite. The honor thrust upon me was not at all 
		appreciated, and I sighed for the buckboard and the company of my 
		husband. We all lunched on the “Comus,” returning in the afternoon, and 
		next day, after bidding adieu to the Marquis of Lorne, we returned to 
		our ordinary “daily round.” 
		 
		I have very little recollection of the Marquis of Lome’s visit on his 
		return from the upper country.  
		 
		Lord Lansdowne’s visit was a most delightful one. Of all the guests we 
		had—and they were many—he and Sir John Macdonald were perhaps the most 
		charming. Lord Lansdowne was accompanied by two aides and, I think, a 
		secretary. When they arrived, one of the aides said to the Bishop: “Do 
		you remember, My Lord, when we last met?” 
		 
		The Bishop did not recollect, and small wonder, when the aide said: 
		 
		“Don’t you remember bailing me out of the police court at Darmstadt in 
		78?” 
		 
		As this bailing out of the police court of the many young Englishmen who 
		were learning German, preparatory to going into the army, was a constant 
		occurrence, it is hardly to be wondered that the Bishop did not remember 
		the circumstance. The numerous German notices of “verboten” or “streng 
		verboten” were irresistible incentives to the English youths to do what 
		was “forbidden” or “strictly forbidden” by the German police. Many of 
		these youths whom we knew in Germany turned up in B. C. to renew the 
		acquaintance. 
		 
		Our house was often called Hotel Sillitoe, because all sorts and 
		conditions of people, both invited and uninvited, came to stay with us. 
		It was a holiday home for any of the workers in the Diocese, and when 
		people were ill they came to be nursed and to recuperate; some of our 
		guests were indeed angels that we entertained unawares, and owing to 
		conditions and difficulties of travel, they would turn up quite 
		unexpectedly. On one occasion at four o’clock one morning in summer 
		time, the Bishop, hearing steps on the verandah, put his head out of the 
		window and called, “Who is there?” A meek voice from below replied: “Me, 
		my Lord.” “Me” was the Rev. R. Small, later Archdeacon of Yale, and his 
		colleague, the Rev. H. Edwardes, who had just arrived from Lytton. I was 
		getting up to make beds ready for them, when I was ordered to remain 
		where I was. I had been ill and was only just recovering. For the 
		remainder of the night the two men had to sleep between blankets, to the 
		great distress of my housewifely soul. 
		 
		In travelling about B. C., as we did every year, we met with the most 
		wonderful hospitality. We could turn up quite unexpectedly at the most 
		busy season of the year, or probably at other times equally 
		inconvenient, but always the same smiling welcome was accorded; only 
		once in all those years do I remember being turned away, probably for 
		some good reason. I have no recollection now of what it was, but I do 
		remember the sinking of heart I experienced, for it was late in the 
		afternoon, the next stopping place being fifteen miles further on—a long 
		stretch for tired horses, to say nothing of ourselves. By the time we 
		reached our second destination it was quite dark. Our host came out to 
		welcome us and then went with the Bishop to unharness and see after the 
		comfort of our horses. This was a job my husband always attended to 
		himself, and he did not leave until the horses were rubbed down and 
		comfortably stabled; always the first thing in the morning he was out 
		again at the stables scraping the collars, greasing the axles and 
		generally over-hauling the harness.  
		 
		This particular stopping place boasted of no women kind. I had been 
		ushered into a large barroom, or at least what appeared to be one, with 
		ten or twelve men lounging about. I was very tired, and, making for the 
		nearest chair, felt a great inclination to weep. The real dangers of the 
		road, so long as my husband was with me, were as nothing, but to be left 
		unprotected in the company of so many unknown men was terrifying. It 
		soon became evident that if I were frightened of the men they were 
		equally so of me, for one by one they made their way out, and I was left 
		absolutely alone. When our host returned, he asked if he could show me 
		to my cabin, and at first I thought he must have been a seafaring man, 
		but no; following the light of the lantern he carried, he ushered us 
		into a one-room cabin with mud floor and just two beds, not another 
		thing, and our host made many apologies to me for the absence of a 
		looking-glass! After supper the men again gathered together, and the 
		Bishop held a short service, and then, after I had retired, he stayed on 
		awhile to have a smoke and talk with them. Next morning he managed to 
		get a pail of water in which I could perform my ablutions. Although our 
		baggage had to be very limited—just a small Gladstone bag shared between 
		us—I always carried soap, towels, a pair of sheets and pillowcases; such 
		things as clean sheets or sheets of any kind were by no means the 
		invariable rule. We borrowed a newspaper to pin over the window as a 
		shade. Another time, when not even a pail could be found in a bachelor 
		establishment, the Bishop commandeered the bread-pan, which no doubt 
		served many other uses, besides being a receptacle for the mixing of the 
		dough. 
		 
		The most striking case of hospitality occurred on one of our visits to 
		the Nicola Valley. It was late in October and the weather had turned 
		very cold. Towards the middle of one afternoon, when we pulled up at our 
		destination, we found only the shell of a house; the side walls were in 
		place, but no roof, no filling between the logs, and, of course, no 
		doors and windows. We were beginning to figure out the distance to the 
		next house when a young couple came out to greet us, the wife looking 
		like a charming picture out of a Kate Greenaway book. 
		 
		O, yes, they could certainly take us in, and, going through the shell of 
		a house, we were shown into a large room — kitchen, sitting-room and 
		bedroom all in one, with a bed in one corner. I could see no other room, 
		so, after the horses were housed, we decided to take a walk and give our 
		hosts an opportunity of making any preparations necessary. It was so 
		cold that, instead of going farther than about half-a-mile, we gathered 
		a lot of fir cones, made a fire and sat down on a log to enjoy the 
		warmth. On our return, things were, to all outward appearances, just as 
		when we left. After supper the Bishop held evening prayers, and about 9 
		o’clock our host and hostess got up, and, saying good-night, left us in 
		possession; we supposed there must be some other accommodation of which 
		he knew nothing. It was not until next morning that we learned they had 
		slept in blankets on the floor of the unfinished building, and the 
		thermometer when we got up in the morning stood at 2 below zero! 
		 
		The Bishop was, I think, the hardest worker I ever knew; he was never 
		very strong, and even before coming out to British Columbia he had had a 
		good deal of trouble with his throat, and this was a source of 
		difficulty during the winter months especially, as the constant 
		preaching and speaking was a great strain on the vocal cords. Five 
		services on a Sunday, with some three or four sermons, was very usual. 
		One winter, during the absence in England of Archdeacon Woods, the 
		Bishop had entire charge of Holy Trinity, New Westminster, and S. 
		Mary’s, Sapperton, with only intermit-tant help from a deacon. 
		 
		The summer travelling, hard though it was in many ways, always found us 
		in better health at the end than at the start. In connection with loss 
		of voice, a most curious entry was made in the Yale service book, 
		unnoticed at the time, but discovered within the record of some service 
		was being looked up. The Rev. Darrell Horlock was in charge of the 
		Church, and on a certain Sunday, in place of the usual entry of the 
		services, which included the text of the sermon, it read: “No services, 
		Rector ill, voice gone.” The next Sunday he was somewhat better, and the 
		entry appeared, “Eight o’clock Celebration, eleven Mattins, no sermon, 
		Rector’s voice still gone,” and on the third Sunday the usual services 
		were entered, and the following was the sermon text: “And the Lord 
		opened the mouth of the ass.” 
		 
		All Saints’ Day, the date of the Bishop’s consecration in 1879, and 
		consequently the birthday of the Diocese, was a day much observed, and 
		we always had to be back from our travels before that date. A service at 
		Holy Trinity, New Westminster, with special music on the eve of the 
		festival, always attracted a very large congregation, and latterly the 
		choir was augmented by the choirs of some of the Vancouver churches. At 
		eight o’clock in the morning of All Saints’ Day there would be a 
		Communion service, fully choral, the music being most beautifully 
		rendered by the choir, which had been trained by the Bishop himself. His 
		great relaxation was music, of which he was passionately fond, and when, 
		during his last illness, the reading of ordinary books tired him, the 
		reading of music scores was generally possible He organized, soon after 
		our arrival, the New Westminster Choral Union, which once a week, during 
		the winter months, brought all the musical people together, and was 
		himself the trainer and conductor; several concerts were given each 
		season, one always being a performance of Handel’s “Messiah.” Such 
		tramps we used to have in those early days into New Westminster, through 
		deep mud, lighting ourselves on our way with a lantern ! The sidewalk, 
		which was built later to the outskirts of New Westminster, was done by 
		private subscriptions, gotten up by the Bishop, the Brunette Saw Mill 
		giving all, or at least part, of the lumber. This made the night 
		journeys into town much easier. After the Bishop’s death I gave his 
		music scores to the Library in New Westminster, and also a file of the 
		concert programmes. A concert by some members of the Choral Union was 
		given at Granville, in the winter of 1884, before anybody thought it 
		would be the terminus of the C. P. R., though the Bishop always 
		prophesied that Burrard Inlet would some day rival San Francisco as a 
		seaport, and was laughed at for his optimism. Those taking part in the 
		concert made the 12-mile journey over the Douglas road by sleigh, the 
		snow making-travelling much easier, for during the rest of the year the 
		road was more or less a combination of corduroy and mud-holes. 
		 
		We had two sleighs, which greatly helped in the transportation of the 
		performers. One of the sleighs was a necessity, the other a luxury, and, 
		as we did not indulge in many luxuries, I had better explain this 
		exception to the rule. 
		 
		Our original sleigh was just a rough box upon runners, with boards 
		nailed across for seats, the whole thing built at the least possible 
		cost. We were driving over to Granville one winter’s day, and stopped to 
		speak to Mr. Black, mine host of the Road End Hotel, and some of his 
		friends. They remarked upon our sleigh in not very complimentary terms, 
		and the Bishop explained that it was strong and serviceable, and the 
		best he could afford. A few days later there was brought to S. Mary’s 
		Mount a beautiful little two-seated cutter, a present to me from these 
		generous-hearted men. 
		 
		On our travels in the out-of-the-way places, services had to be held in 
		all sorts of places. On our first visit to the Coldstream Ranch, near 
		what is now Vernon, the services were held in a big barn, and in “Early 
		Days in B. C.” I told f the comical interference with the sermon by a 
		proud hen which had just laid an egg. On our next visit to Coldstream 
		different arrangements were made for the services. A new dining-room had 
		just been added, but the floor boards had been left loose so as to allow 
		of their shrinking before being nailed down. The service proceeded 
		uneventfully until the first lesson, when the chairs on which we were 
		seated began to jerk up and down in a most curious way, giving the whole 
		scene a most ludicrous appearance. The explanation was that a party of 
		pigs had got in underneath the room, and finding the unusual resistance 
		of the boards provided delightful scratching for their backs, had a 
		delightful time. A little later our gravity was again sorely tried. An 
		old mother pig, surrounded by a large and growing family, had inserted 
		her head into a receptacle where the Chinaman threw the refuse from the 
		kitchen, and, while the meal proceeded, all went well; but, when she 
		tried to withdraw her head, she could not do it, and, growing 
		frightened, rushed around with the tin still on her head, terrifying her 
		poor offspring, who scattered with loud squeals in all directions at the 
		unwonted appearance of their parent, and all this was in full view of 
		the room. I hope that the service was edifying—certainly it was not 
		dull. 
		 
		REMINISCENCES of Pioneer Days in B. C.” would indeed be incomplete 
		without mention of Father Pat, one of the best-known and best-loved men 
		in the Diocese of New Westminster. The Rev. H. Irwin came out in 1885, 
		and was stationed at Kamloops as assistant to the Rev. Darrell Horlock. 
		The parish, or rather Missionary District, was a most extensive one, and 
		soon Father Pat was riding-here, there and everywhere, holding services 
		in all sorts of places and making friends wherever he went. A little 
		Memoir, written by Mrs. Mercier, tells how a friend of his at Oxford had 
		given him this name, which stuck to him all his life, and was used by 
		everyone who knew him, in the new world as well as the old. 
		 
		When first he arrived in Kamloops, some of the boys, looking upon the 
		new parson as a tenderfoot, and therefore fair game, thought they would 
		have some fun with him, and asked if he could ride; when Father Pat said 
		that he could, they offered him a mount, not, however, mentioning that 
		the horse was a buck-jumper. Mr. Irwin was an excellent horseman, and in 
		his Irish home could ride any horse bare-backed or otherwise, but a 
		buck-jumper was a new experience. He soon realized that a trick had been 
		played upon him, but this only put his back up, and, after he had been 
		twice thrown, the boys were heartily ashamed of themselves and 
		apologized, but Father Pat had established a character, and this 
		incident was published far and wide and was a most helpful introduction 
		for him. 
		 
		The following letter I wrote to Mrs. Mercier in answer to her request 
		that I would tell her something about Mr. and Mrs. Irwin’s married life. 
		On January 8th, 1890, he was married to Miss Frances Stuart Innes, 
		daughter of Mr. J. H. Innes, head of H. M. Naval Establishment at 
		Esquimalt. My letter, published in “Father Pat,” is as follows:— 
		 
		“You ask me to tell you what I can about Mr. Irwin’s short married life, 
		and the time afterwards that he spent at the See House as the Bishop’s 
		Secretary and Chaplain. 
		 
		“Being away from all my papers, it is impossible for me to remember 
		exact dates, but I think it was about the New Year, 1890, that Mr. Irwin 
		brought his bride to New Westminster, to a little house not far from the 
		Church.  
		 
		“Father Pat and his wife were like two children in the delight they took 
		in everything, in the pride they took in each other and their cosy 
		little home; and, although it was given to them to spend so short a time 
		together here below, that time was one of unclouded happiness. This I 
		say from observation and from what Mr. Irwin has since told me, for he 
		loved to talk to me of his wife and of their happiness, telling me all 
		sorts of anecdotes of their life.  
		 
		“At the choral evensong on All Saints’ eve, 1890, the hymn ‘For all the 
		Saints who from their labours rest’ was sung for the first time. Mrs. 
		Irwin was not feeling well enough to attend the service, but walked over 
		to the Cathedral to listen from outside. She thought she had never heard 
		anything more beautiful than this hymn, the beauty of which lifts one 
		for a while above the small worries and harassments of earth, the last 
		triumphant verses carrying one almost into the Divine presence. ‘And to 
		think,’ as Mr. Irwin said to me, ‘that so soon afterwards it should have 
		been sung for her.’ 
		 
		“The little baby, whose advent was to fill up the cup of happiness 
		already so full, was not permitted to see the light of this world; and 
		on the evening of a Sunday in November, on which so many prayers had 
		been offered for the safety of mother and child, the little one was laid 
		at rest in a corner of the beautiful cemetery overlooking the Fraser 
		River and the snowclad mountains beyond. The grave is now marked by a 
		tiny stone on which is a touching inscription. 
		 
		“Three days later Mrs. Irwin died, the shock being all the more 
		crushing, as she was supposed to be recovering. On the evening of the 
		funeral Mr. Irwin took up his residence at the See House, and here he 
		stayed until early in 1894, when he was called to Ireland, a few months 
		before the Bishop’s death, on account of his father’s severe illness. 
		 
		“Of his work during these three years there is not much to be recorded. 
		It consisted of humdrum every-day drudgery, the writing and copying of 
		letters, interviews, parochial work (for he was curate of the 
		Cathedral), and numberless other things too insignificant to mention. 
		 
		“The office, a large room in the See House, used for meetings and the 
		transaction of business, was where he was usually to be found, although 
		he had a private sitting-room. In the evenings he was usually surrounded 
		by a number of young fellows, for the most part either strangers or 
		those down on their luck. 
		 
		“Our Sunday evening suppers at the See House were always motley 
		gatherings of all sorts and conditions of men; frugal meals they were, 
		as indeed was all our fare; but happy and restful after the day’s work 
		was over. It was a great amusement to Father Pat to tell us afterwards 
		of the remarks that were made, the great simplicity was so different 
		from what was supposed to be en regie in an episcopal household. 
		 
		“Mr. Irwin’s sunny disposition made him a charming member of the family, 
		and the love between him and the Bishop was more that of a father and 
		son, and in all these years I never remember any friction dimming its 
		brightness. 
		 
		“Mr. Irwin always believed the best of everyone, and his character was 
		to strangers a misleading one: he was so sweet-tempered, so anxious to 
		think others right and to yield his own way, that people were inclined 
		to think that he could be easily led and influenced; it was only when 
		they were brought up against his principles that they found themselves 
		face to face before a solid wall round which there was no way of 
		getting.  
		 
		When he felt a thing to be right, there was no shadow of yielding. He 
		was from the first one of my truest and dearest friends; but though I 
		knew he was out of health, I had no idea that the end, for which he so 
		much longed, was so near. The sorrow for my personal loss could not but 
		be very great, and yet there was happiness in knowing that his many and 
		arduous labours were over, and that in the rest of Paradise he was 
		re-united to those loved ones gone before. 
		 
		Mr. Irwin’s thoughtfulness for others was wonderful. On my first visit 
		to England after the Bishop’s death, he made a special journey over from 
		Ireland, so that there should be somebody to meet me at Liverpool. 
		During my stay in England he told me he did not intend to return to 
		British Columbia, that he could not face the work there without the 
		Bishop. I objected to this, saying that it would not be fair to the new 
		Bishop who was not then appointed; also I felt sure that this would be 
		contrary to the wishes of my husband, who always placed the welfare of 
		the Church before any private feelings. In the end, Mr. Irwin decided to 
		return, taking up work in the Kootenays, remaining there until his death 
		in 1902. The end was very sad in its loneliness. He was on his way to 
		Ireland very much out of health, nervously and physically, and he 
		alighted from the train just before reaching Montreal, probably craving 
		for the exercise to which he was so much accustomed. He was picked up by 
		a farmer with both feet badly frozen, taken to the Notre Dame Hospital, 
		but from the first his case was hopeless. In spite of great suffering, 
		he was most considerate and cheerful. The Sisters had notified the Rev. 
		Canon Wood of S. John’s, Montreal, when they found that their mysterious 
		patient (who refused to give his real name) belonged to the Church of 
		England, and during the last three days Canon Wood was often with him. 
		He lost consciousness only a few hours before death. Dr. D. A. Kingston, 
		who attended him, wrote: “For my own part, I have never seen so much 
		strength and so much gentleness combined.” 
		 
		“In a corner of the beautiful little cemetery at Sapperton is a 
		semi-circular headstone, very low and small. In its centre is a sacred 
		symbol, the Cross enclosed in a circle. It is the grave of the nameless 
		little one who never saw the light; and beneath the symbol are these 
		touching lines: 
		 
		‘No name had I, O Christ, to offer Thee, 
		Nor from Thy font received the sacred sign; 
		Yet in Thy Book of Life remember me, 
		I plead my Saviour’s Name instead of mine.’  
		‘Child of H. and F. S. Irwin.’ 
		 
		“Not far off lie the parents in one grave, with two white marble crosses 
		at head and foot.” 
		 
		ON one of our journeys up country, whither we were going to attend a 
		gathering of Indians, we took with us as our travelling companion Miss 
		Woods, the eldest daughter of the Archdeacon of Columbia. There were 
		trains running irregularly on part of the western section of the C. P. 
		R., but the cantelever bridge where the line crosses the Fraser River 
		had not then been built. Crossing the river was made in a sort of basket 
		slung on wire ropes. Only two persons, we were told, were allowed to 
		cross at one time. Miss Woods, however, absolutely refused to go without 
		either the Bishop or me, and I would not permit him to go without me, 
		saying that if anything happened we would at least die together. The 
		situation was a difficult one, for we could not possibly leave Miss 
		Woods behind. The authorities finally allowed the three of us to crowd 
		into the basket, and we reached the further shore safely. We spent the 
		night in Lytton in the little one-room cottage, the Bishop and I 
		sleeping on the bare boards with our Gladstone for a pillow. There were 
		no blankets, these having been sent on ahead of us to the camp. 
		 
		Another time, soon after the completion of the C. P. R., we were 
		journeying to fill an engagement at Chilliwack, and, while in the 
		Pullman car talking to friends, the car began to roll about in a very 
		curious fashion. Happily for all concerned, a quick-witted newsboy 
		pulled the cord connecting with the engine, causing the engineer to stop 
		the train, without, however, being able to see what was wrong. By that 
		time our car was on its side, having gone off the track. Prompt action 
		probably saved many lives, for, had we gone a few hundred yards further, 
		we should have been landed, or rather submerged, in the Fraser River. As 
		it was, it all happened so quickly and quietly that we were hardly 
		frightened, and were able to climb out of the car safely. It was 
		impossible for us to reach Chilliwack in time for our engagement, and 
		our only alternative was to tramp back over the tracks to Westminster 
		Junction. 
		 
		In concluding his book, “Church Work in British Columbia,” Doctor Gowen 
		says: “With such a Bishop’s grave amongst us, the Diocese can never be 
		poor; as we gaze upon it under the shadow of the mighty trees of the 
		western fore t, it speaks to us of the continuity of a cause which 
		marches in victoriously, though every standard-bearer fall in the light. 
		We know that while God has given rest to His ser-wmts> their work is not 
		done, nor can their graves be cold.” 
		 
		Now, thirty years later, more of the standard-bearers have fallen. Six 
		months after my husband’s death Archdeacon Woods was called to his rest, 
		and was later followed by the Rev. Richard Small, Archdeacon of Yale, a 
		Missionary to the Indians; by the Rev. H. Irwin, the Rev. Charles 
		Croucher, and the Rev. H. G. Fiennes-Clinton, whose name will always be 
		associated with S. James’, the mother Church of Vancouver, and who was 
		identified with everything that made for the well-being of the Church 
		and of the City of Vancouver. 
		 
		All these men, of whose friendship I must ever feel proud, have died out 
		here. Archdeacon Woods, “Father Pat” and Mr. Croucher are buried not far 
		from my husband in the Sapperton cemetery, while Archdeacon Small’s body 
		lies underneath the spot where stood the altar of the first S. Paul’s 
		Church at Lytton. Father Clinton’s body rests in Vancouver’s beautiful 
		Mountain View cemetery. The second Bishop of New Westminster, the Right 
		Rev. John Dart, is also buried in the Sapperton Cemetery. These graves, 
		too, testify to the continuity of the cause for which they lived and 
		died. 
		 
		These are a few of the reminiscences, interesting most of all to myself, 
		inasmuch as through them I live over again in memory, those happy bygone 
		days, but if, through them, a desire is awakened in others to learn more 
		about our Church’s work in British Columbia, the object will indeed have 
		been accomplished.  |