The first white man who
died in the Long Point Settlement was the U. E. Loyalist, Frederick Maby.
In 1794 he passed away, after only one year spent in the endeavor to
build up a home in the wilderness. He was buried in a log coffin; that
is, one hewn out of a solid log, covered with a rough slab. The grave
was on the top of the hill which overlooks Turkey Point. There was no
funeral, for there was not a minister of any denomination within a
hundred miles. The weeping family simply knelt around the open grave.
Besides the widow and the children of the deceased, there were three
other men, still earlier settlers,—"Billy Smith,” who had lived a wild
life for years among the Indians, Peter Secord, and “Dr.” Troyer.
The places of burial
continued generally on the spot chosen by the family of the first person
who died in that locality. When another of the settlers died, it was the
natural thing to lay him beside the one who had gone before, and thus
the number of those who were removed from their difficulties and
hardships would keep on increasing, and the cemetery would be filled.
But some preferred to
bury their loved ones in a corner of their farm, and many a little
private burying ground may be seen to-day—a corner of a field, where a
few cypress or willow trees have been left to murmur a requiem over the
departed.
The mode of burial was
simple and touching. Seldom in the early days of the settlement was
there any minister to conduct the service The elder sons of the mourning
family would bear the rude coffin, which had sometimes the simple
tribute of a few wild flowers placed thereon, to the open grave. When
the body was lowered the father, in broken voice, would read a prayer or
make a few remarks about the departed to the friends who were standing
around, with heads uncovered. “Dust to dust, ashes to ashes". Sadly the
sorrowing friends filled in the earth and turned away, striving to drown
their grief in labor. But the cypress trees softly whispered in the
breeze of summer or howled in the winters blast over the resting-places
of those who had been loyal and true and noble, who had done their duty
for conscience’ sake, who had worked hard and long and faithfully to
build a home on British soil, and to whom had now come the everlasting
rest after labor. Oh, what memories, sacred and sad and sweet, cluster
around these old burying grounds ! Men who rest without a marble
monument, yet who need none, for the fields, clad with the ripening
grain, the beautiful homes, the splendid roads, the churches, the
schools, the benevolent institutions of every kind are their memorials,
for it was they who first entered the wilderness and laid the foundation
for that marvellous superstructure of civilization reared by generations
then unborn. |